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Didn't you get married less than a year ago? That would make things extremely complicated and whatever you are feeling and seeing - an illusion. And maybe it wasn't a chance encounter, but a test for both us.

Please disregard this - I'm just referring to my own situation. :) I hope you get that kiss. ]]> 2010-01-08T00:44:06-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1542656664.html text 2010-01-08T00:44:06-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542603696.html
if your into guys hit me up ....tell me what store it was so i know its you and what else we talked about ....]]> 2010-01-07T23:38:55-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542603696.html text 2010-01-07T23:38:55-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542557920.html 2010-01-07T22:42:57-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542557920.html text 2010-01-07T22:42:57-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542502088.html
Thanks! ]]> 2010-01-07T21:50:21-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542502088.html text 2010-01-07T21:50:21-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542492960.html 2010-01-07T21:41:44-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542492960.html text 2010-01-07T21:41:44-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542488956.html 2010-01-07T21:38:10-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542488956.html text 2010-01-07T21:38:10-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542441719.html
Anyone can reply. Guy, Girl, Tranny, Crossdressers... whatever.

Oh yeah and I have beer ]]> 2010-01-07T20:57:50-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542441719.html text 2010-01-07T20:57:50-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542421163.html 2010-01-07T20:42:29-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542421163.html text 2010-01-07T20:42:29-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542410080.html 2010-01-07T20:36:52-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542410080.html text 2010-01-07T20:36:52-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542385919.html 2010-01-07T20:14:49-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542385919.html text 2010-01-07T20:14:49-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542359983.html 2010-01-07T19:59:26-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542359983.html text 2010-01-07T19:59:26-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542315823.html 2010-01-07T19:20:38-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542315823.html text 2010-01-07T19:20:38-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542273147.html 2010-01-07T18:49:17-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542273147.html text 2010-01-07T18:49:17-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542270231.html
I have a different take on this. If you're a boy writing for a girl, Coulda, she's probably waiting for you to ask her out on a date.

See, I've been the girl in this situation plenty of times before. Is she pretty too? And smart? All- around quality girl? Unfortunately, she may be reading your shyness as an unwillingness to put forth the effort for her. Oh you'll let her sit on it if she comes over, but you're not going out of your way. (Let me guess, you've asked her to come over and "hang out" before. And that was one of the times she went cold. ).

The last thing that a girl like me wants is to get too attached to some lethargic bump on a log. She doesn't want to get stuck doing all the work. She's not going to let you turn her into late-nite carryout. But she likes you. So she smiles, and flirts, and waits for you to grow up and figure it out.

So ask her out, Coulda. Say, "I would like to take you out and get to know you better, one on one". It doesn't matter if you're a poor student or you live in a town with one restaurant and it's the Hunt Club. If you're poor, split an entree (I prefer chicken fingers). It's not about spending money on a girl. It's about showing her that you're not looking for shortcuts and you intend to treat her right. It doesn't matter if you're co-workers or Mormons or she has a boyfriend, or any other obstacle to going out in public that you might dream up (OK, if she's married, that might be an obstacle).

"Wait wait wait", some guys would be saying right now, "I shouldn't have to do go through this whole big production just to get some tail". If that's you, Coulda, suits her fine. She's trying to screen out guys like you, and it worked.

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First: I am not Coulda. And none of the prior posts in this thread has my fingerprints on them.

Second: Great post!

Third: Her having a boyfriend is NOT an obstacle???

So, that then means that if we accept this: "Wait wait wait", some guys would be saying right now, "I shouldn't have to do go through this whole big production just to get some tail". If that's you, Coulda, suits her fine. She's trying to screen out guys like you, and it worked.”

We must also look at the reversal: maybe Coulda is the one with the superior screening process. Because, really, does not the question arise as to why a woman in a committed relationship is willing to admit: “But she likes you. So she smiles, and flirts, and waits for you to grow up and figure it out.” Does this not call into question the type of woman Coulda might be getting involved with? Doesn’t this imply that she is currently not happy in her relationship but unwilling to leave it unless she has some other… support system… er… I don’t know… something seems amiss… And I am genuinely curious about this.

A women tells a man she is in a relationship, and then bats her eyes at him and plays coy, and then wonders why he does not, “grow up and figure it out.” Those are some confusing signals. While it is normally perfectly fine for a woman (or man) currently in a relationship to have dinner with someone other than his or her significant other, the pretext you propose seems a little off. You are encouraging the man to say to a woman with a boyfriend: "I would like to take you out and get to know you better, one on one". You are also implying that this is what the woman wants. So, let us say that Coulda does just as you propose. And she accepts. You don’t think he then wonders about her? Maybe the type of “tail” he is hoping to land would never accept a dinner offer under that pretext while currently in a relationship, even an unmarried one. Maybe with her acceptance of such an offer she has proven that she is exactly the type of girl that he will let “sit on it if she comes over”, but not the type of girl he is willing to put forth effort for. Because maybe he too is looking to be treated right.

Again, I am truly interested in this. Should a man not respect a woman’s space and person when she tells him she has a boyfriend? If she really wants him to “grow up and figure it out” why doesn’t she dump the current boyfriend and then say, “I’m single!” Working from your offered scenario, she is clearly interested in him. And well aware of his interest in her. Maybe if she got rid of the obstacle (i.e. boyfriend) Coulda (our hypothetical Coulda in this scenario) could and would put forth full effort.

Any thoughts? ]]> 2010-01-07T18:47:12-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542270231.html text 2010-01-07T18:47:12-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542218851.html 2010-01-07T18:11:02-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542218851.html text 2010-01-07T18:11:02-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1542217744.html 2010-01-07T18:10:16-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1542217744.html text 2010-01-07T18:10:16-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1542190596.html 2010-01-07T17:53:15-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1542190596.html text 2010-01-07T17:53:15-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542170694.html 2010-01-07T17:41:01-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1542170694.html text 2010-01-07T17:41:01-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1542135725.html see you tomorrow!
ps. no, sorry I won't give any initials but her name starts with an N. if you want more information you'll have to email me because frankly I'm a little freaked out about this and have no guts whatsoever to put an even larger target over my head. If she reads this, she will have an idea of who this is. ]]> 2010-01-07T17:17:55-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1542135725.html text 2010-01-07T17:17:55-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542049094.html I am no geek and considered very attractive and very finacially secure. I have a very beautiful wife yet damage has been done. I am not shy by all means, however its unethical for me to make a move. I am sort of stuck in this marriage, yet I would run away w/ you forever if I knew you would come with me. I would take care of you and your children as if they were my own. This was your second marriage and the strange thing is, x xxxx xx xxxxxx xxxx xxxx xxxxx xxxxxxx I will leave this blank because it would give it away.
I know this sounds crazy to some, I had to get this off my chest. This was the best place to do it. If you think this is you email me your first name. We can then begin the rest of our life together forever.]]> 2010-01-07T16:26:36-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1542049094.html text 2010-01-07T16:26:36-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541936937.html 2010-01-07T15:20:33-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541936937.html text 2010-01-07T15:20:33-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541908667.html 2010-01-07T15:05:00-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541908667.html text 2010-01-07T15:05:00-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541865354.html 2010-01-07T14:41:12-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541865354.html text 2010-01-07T14:41:12-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541814464.html
Jesus is Lord. Peace be with you always ]]> 2010-01-07T14:13:46-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541814464.html text 2010-01-07T14:13:46-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541799688.html 2010-01-07T14:06:12-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541799688.html text 2010-01-07T14:06:12-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541777502.html I have thought about it alot. Us being together means complicating my life, and yours as well. So part of me kept hoping that maybe you'd do something that would make my feelings for you go away. I looked hard for things not to like about you, but I even find your flaws attractive. The more I know about you, the more attracted to you I am. Yet I still try to convince myself that you don't fit into my plans, that I will live to regret the complications, and that you would wake up one day and wonder why you're with me. But it hasn't worked. I think about us and it feels more right than anything I've ever done in my life. The thought of you not being in my life is unbearable. You filled a void in my heart I didn't even know existed, and now that it's filled, I don't want to lose what's there. Yet somehow, I'm still scared to death to take the leap. If you are patient enough to wait, I will find it in me to do whatever it takes for us to be together, complications be damned. Or if you're not willing to wait any longer, just kiss me already. I've never believed in fate or any other universal forces, but I have to believe now, that somehow, us meeting was not a chance encounter, that we were meant to find each other. I've only known you a short time, but somehow I feel like I've always known you. I've never felt this way before and I doubt I ever will again.

Name/initials witheld because I'm scared to death. So if you want to know if this is for you, then just kiss the person you're hoping it's from. The rest will come easy. If not, patience...]]> 2010-01-07T13:54:16-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541777502.html text 2010-01-07T13:54:16-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541768861.html 2010-01-07T13:49:49-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541768861.html text 2010-01-07T13:49:49-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541753562.html I could spend hours in that same spot. ]]> 2010-01-07T13:41:53-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541753562.html text 2010-01-07T13:41:53-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541732363.html
See, I've been the girl in this situation plenty of times before. Is she pretty too? And smart? All- around quality girl? Unfortunately, she may be reading your shyness as an unwillingness to put forth the effort for her. Oh you'll let her sit on it if she comes over, but you're not going out of your way. (Let me guess, you've asked her to come over and "hang out" before. And that was one of the times she went cold. ).

The last thing that a girl like me wants is to get too attached to some lethargic bump on a log. She doesn't want to get stuck doing all the work. She's not going to let you turn her into late-nite carryout. But she likes you. So she smiles, and flirts, and waits for you to grow up and figure it out.

So ask her out, Coulda. Say, "I would like to take you out and get to know you better, one on one". It doesn't matter if you're a poor student or you live in a town with one restaurant and it's the Hunt Club. If you're poor, split an entree (I prefer chicken fingers). It's not about spending money on a girl. It's about showing her that you're not looking for shortcuts and you intend to treat her right. It doesn't matter if you're co-workers or Mormons or she has a boyfriend, or any other obstacle to going out in public that you might dream up (OK, if she's married, that might be an obstacle).

"Wait wait wait", some guys would be saying right now, "I shouldn't have to do go through this whole big production just to get some tail". If that's you, Coulda, suits her fine. She's trying to screen out guys like you, and it worked. ]]> 2010-01-07T13:31:34-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541732363.html text 2010-01-07T13:31:34-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541728348.html
Both had hot dudes, first one seemed to be flirting.

Any of you guys intrested in grabbing a brew, or something? lol

Let me know what I was there for (be specific) let me know what I was wearing, and any other clues to know it's you. ]]> 2010-01-07T13:29:55-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541728348.html text 2010-01-07T13:29:55-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541706692.html
]]> 2010-01-07T13:17:39-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541706692.html text 2010-01-07T13:17:39-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541674120.html 2010-01-07T13:00:43-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541674120.html text 2010-01-07T13:00:43-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541576514.html
J.H. + J.P.H.]]> 2010-01-07T12:09:58-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541576514.html text 2010-01-07T12:09:58-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541433449.html and the special time was over. I was the appreciative guy on your ??? right or left. I am not sure if you are interested, but I'd sure like to see where that happy trail ends up.
Tell me which side and something like hair color so I know it's you.]]> 2010-01-07T10:50:15-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541433449.html text 2010-01-07T10:50:15-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541308450.html 2010-01-07T09:10:46-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541308450.html text 2010-01-07T09:10:46-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541307623.html 2010-01-07T09:09:55-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541307623.html text 2010-01-07T09:09:55-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541288116.html 2010-01-07T08:47:10-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541288116.html text 2010-01-07T08:47:10-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541230100.html half as much as I'm sure he loves you. But you do what you want. ;)]]> 2010-01-07T06:43:37-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541230100.html text 2010-01-07T06:43:37-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541210864.html 2010-01-07T05:05:21-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541210864.html text 2010-01-07T05:05:21-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541180504.html 2010-01-07T02:57:56-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541180504.html text 2010-01-07T02:57:56-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541172527.html
Like any good superhero, I have my faults. It's what grounds us, what makes us human. Spider-Man's an awkward nerd, Iron Man's a drunk, the Incredible Hulk has his anger issues, no matter how hard he tries Batman will never save his parents.

You live a lie, in a home you've been repeatedly kicked out of with a weak man who's threatened to kill you, and yet you stay. You've been personally blessed with the presence of someone who truly cares about you, who will stop at nothing to make sure you're taken care of, who will put his own needs behind yours, and yet you stay.

I am your prophet, your messiah, your salvation. I will lead you to the promised land, a place where every need is fulfilled and every worry is gone on a breeze.

You told me how disappointed you were with the end of Gran Torino. I told you it was beautiful, because in death he was able to achieve more than in life.

I WILL save you, even if it kills me, AW. Even if he kills me. With the gun he threatened to shoot you with.

I won't let you down, and moreover, I will absolutely not let myself down. I deserve to do something great with my life, and I know that something is your happiness.]]> 2010-01-07T02:34:30-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541172527.html text 2010-01-07T02:34:30-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541164400.html
While your advice is sound and honest, I hate to be the one to tell you that person might not be in to you. the reason why you have felt let down time after time, month after month, is because that person doesn't feel what you feel toward them. You are expending your resources, time, and emotions to reach out toward them. To initiated conversations, to go out of your way to show how you care, to flirt with them, blah blah blah. but what you don't realize is, nothing will come of it. This person obviously knows you're into them. So i think it's good you're taking the approach to say "hey, either take us for how we are now or Im' moving on." Me...i was dumb and just couldn't let it go. I really belived with all my heart this chick was into me. Finally it got to the point where she just dropped me cold when someone mentioned I had started seeing someone else. You wouldn't believe how fast she turned cold on me over that. Nonetheless, she didn't enjoy ME or mY company, she just plain enjoyed flirting with anyone who would give her the time of day.

I really do hope that my situation is nothing like yours. I hope you make that move and get something out of it. You seem like you have a good shoulder on your head so stop wasting your time with someone who can't equal your attraction!]]> 2010-01-07T02:22:15-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541164400.html text 2010-01-07T02:22:15-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541168001.html 2010-01-07T02:22:00-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541168001.html text 2010-01-07T02:22:00-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541159111.html 2010-01-07T02:01:38-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541159111.html text 2010-01-07T02:01:38-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541144654.html
B.]]> 2010-01-07T01:30:49-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541144654.html text 2010-01-07T01:30:49-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541143589.html 2010-01-07T01:29:44-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541143589.html text 2010-01-07T01:29:44-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541134916.html
I picked out a place for us. I know you have no idea that I've thought that far. Its a small place, thats how I like it. On a lake with a view. A fireplace in the living room for you and I to just waste the hours. We seem to have a knack for that. Well it was beautiful. You'll never see it and I'll never tell you, but maybe we share the same dreams.

You mean so much to me. I wish things were different. We can't change the cards we are dealt. Just ride it out, hope for change and hope we feel the same way.

I love you.]]> 2010-01-07T01:13:47-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541134916.html text 2010-01-07T01:13:47-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541118358.html
I should find peace in the fact that you aren't thinking of me. I don't.

I wish it hadn't gotten away from me. I wish it were possible to be friends. I wish I was better than I am. I wish I was more than I am. I wish I could be what you need. I wish I weren't so pathetic.

They're like a spiral -- these thoughts of mine. I go over the old lines, again and again until I get to the center and confront the utter injustice of it all. What a joke that is. Like there isn't REAL injustice in the world? I should compare my nonsense to others with real problems?

Tonight, I write it out, to get it out, to sleep sooner rather than later. I tell myself that eventually I will get far enough away to break free of the orbit... eventually your gravity will be nothing to me.

The easy way is to think mean thoughts, to blame you for not filling my hopes. I can't. I see your face and I sometimes feel the hurt spots you carry inside. I can do nothing to add to them. So I pray for you every week. I light a candle for you. For health, for wealth, for things I can't even ask for myself.

I think about things and times and places and words and laughter.

I think about you and I know that you don't think about me and knowing that makes me feel so weak and foolish. I wish that I could make myself forget about you. I will. Someday. A few more months, I think.

I'm done thinking now. I'm tired and my emotions are on this page. Now I am exhausted.

]]> 2010-01-07T00:46:28-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541118358.html text 2010-01-07T00:46:28-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541096400.html 2010-01-07T00:15:27-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541096400.html text 2010-01-07T00:15:27-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541080410.html 2010-01-06T23:55:50-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541080410.html text 2010-01-06T23:55:50-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541079264.html 2010-01-06T23:53:49-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541079264.html text 2010-01-06T23:53:49-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541075633.html 2010-01-06T23:49:22-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541075633.html text 2010-01-06T23:49:22-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541070664.html 2010-01-06T23:45:30-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1541070664.html text 2010-01-06T23:45:30-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541061138.html 2010-01-06T23:33:23-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1541061138.html text 2010-01-06T23:33:23-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541034832.html
You: New-ish coffee brown Cadillac DTS, salt and pepper hair, thick glasses on thin rims, Bobby Vinton on the stereo, driver's seat as high as it could go to get above the steering wheel, old as shit.

I would like to thank you for the impromptu drag race we engaged in sometime around 2:30 today at the intersection of Auburn and Rochester as I was heading back home from Meijer. But I would like to apologize for not letting you win as I had no idea how much it meant to you. When we stopped at the light I glanced to my left only to see you glaring back at me through coke-bottle glasses and a furled brow. I saw a twinge of bloodlust inside those frames, whether it was a kind of lust for the battle to come or from an overdose of Metamucil and Aleve, I don't know, but what I do know is that it was electrifying. I turned to look back at the road ahead and noticed that the pavement was going to narrow down from two lanes to one after the light and I finally understood; now I wanted blood too. You aimed to test my mettle, so I slapped it into first gear and awaited the bright green starting gun. I should have known you meant business by how your front wheels squealed your car off the line. The fact you started honking at me halfway through the overtake was probably a friendly way of cheering on the spirit of competition. The flash of your brights was probably a nod to a job well done. While I didn't know at first, how you followed me a mile down Auburn literally holding your hand on the horn the entire way was clearly your attempt at trying to get me to pull over so we could high-five. Dear crazy old lady in the coffee brown caddy, if you would like to engage in other somewhat dangerous and mildly nonsensical events shoot me an email, I'd be stoked to meet you.]]> 2010-01-06T23:06:17-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1541034832.html text 2010-01-06T23:06:17-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540991165.html 2010-01-06T22:20:40-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540991165.html text 2010-01-06T22:20:40-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540978548.html
I told you I was looking for someone emotionally available, mature, who knew what they wanted, who wasn't into games and you swore that you were all of those things. You fed me every line you could until you got me hooked, and then continued to string me along a little more-all because I thought you were the good guy. You're nothing more than some ridiculous commitment phobic player who has no idea what he wants...just another loser running across my path. I'm so disappointed in you.

Hope the new girl works out because I'm gone.]]> 2010-01-06T22:12:59-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540978548.html text 2010-01-06T22:12:59-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540938806.html 2010-01-06T21:36:22-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540938806.html text 2010-01-06T21:36:22-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540892687.html 2010-01-06T20:56:58-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540892687.html text 2010-01-06T20:56:58-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1540839086.html 2010-01-06T20:17:08-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1540839086.html text 2010-01-06T20:17:08-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540839876.html Anyways... I really did love you and still really do no matter how hard I try not too. I know you couldn't see it back then but you gave up on a good man that was just going through some emotional, finical hard times then... I'm not that man anymore but my love is still just as strong. Still love you and the kids.... Love G]]> 2010-01-06T20:16:00-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540839876.html text 2010-01-06T20:16:00-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540828109.html 2010-01-06T20:09:37-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540828109.html text 2010-01-06T20:09:37-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540827691.html
My advice to you that post here and dream of someone but haven’t taken the chance, let enough time go by waiting for the right moment and life has a way of moving on and you’ll still be posting couldas and wouldas here on CL. If someone is making the tinyest of efforts your way, don’t wait for something bigger or something clearer as they may be doing the best they can and waiting for you to respond. Maybe it’s a simple text, call, or email or maybe it’s just a silly reason to talk to you. Foolish pride is such a waste.

]]> 2010-01-06T20:08:26-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540827691.html text 2010-01-06T20:08:26-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540805620.html 2010-01-06T19:53:00-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540805620.html text 2010-01-06T19:53:00-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540803570.html 2010-01-06T19:50:26-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540803570.html text 2010-01-06T19:50:26-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540791793.html 2010-01-06T19:40:42-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540791793.html text 2010-01-06T19:40:42-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540762076.html I reminded you we decided to just be friends and you said that's all you wanted to do was talk...you were alone. I
agreed. When you showed up you brought me a drink in a monster cup and we sat in your truck and listened to
the CD you made and talked for hours...about everything and nothing. It was late into the night or early into the
morning and you wanted me to follow you on the golf course....we headed in that direction but decided to stay
dry and go inside. The moon was shinnning so bright into the window it lit up the whole room...I kissed the back of your
neck at the same time helping you get your shirt off. I still remember the look in your sexy eyes and every touch from
that night..... Iwonder if you do? Tell me your initials or mine if you read this.
Me ;) ]]> 2010-01-06T19:19:35-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540762076.html text 2010-01-06T19:19:35-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540760351.html 2010-01-06T19:17:53-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540760351.html text 2010-01-06T19:17:53-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540691037.html 2010-01-06T18:30:23-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540691037.html text 2010-01-06T18:30:23-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540524737.html 2010-01-06T16:44:03-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540524737.html text 2010-01-06T16:44:03-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540507670.html 2010-01-06T16:35:24-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540507670.html text 2010-01-06T16:35:24-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540282527.html Youre blonde and beautiful, we made eye contact few times. I should said something...hope you see this]]> 2010-01-06T14:39:24-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540282527.html text 2010-01-06T14:39:24-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540289705.html 2010-01-06T14:34:25-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1540289705.html text 2010-01-06T14:34:25-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540267851.html Recall the Merry Xmas and replied What year? I said I spend a lot there!!
I think you may be interested as I am! Seen you on Wednesday around 1:20
Let me know.]]> 2010-01-06T14:22:35-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540267851.html text 2010-01-06T14:22:35-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540255874.html 2010-01-06T14:16:21-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540255874.html text 2010-01-06T14:16:21-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540227575.html 2010-01-06T14:02:21-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1540227575.html text 2010-01-06T14:02:21-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1540051253.html 2010-01-06T12:30:57-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1540051253.html text 2010-01-06T12:30:57-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539951690.html 2010-01-06T11:39:21-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539951690.html text 2010-01-06T11:39:21-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1539868432.html 2010-01-06T11:30:24-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1539868432.html text 2010-01-06T11:30:24-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539870899.html It seems we have a person trying to keep us apart by making up information.
It's working.
We both hurt and feel as if the other person is in the wrong.
The lies have deeply hurt and damaged our relationship.
I don't want to lose you.
Our journey is still in the very beginning.
What we have is too special.
Meet me halfway]]> 2010-01-06T10:53:41-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539870899.html text 2010-01-06T10:53:41-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539842616.html
I know a Brian that rides the bus alot. He usually has his own money though, and always shares with me. He needs places to stay places from time to time also & has stayed with me. This makes me think you may be talkin about him. I have to wonder though he would not borrow money from someone, and if a person chooses to buy him things thats between him and them. The brian i know is a really good guy so maybe Its not the one ur lookin for. Also, to degrade him the way you did about oral pleasures tends me to believe he may have broken your heart or something....especially cause you posted so late at night. (did you have a few in ya????) If it is him you posting is not totally accurate. Im not even gonna bother him with this just wanted to reply to you cause I think your posting was written with alot of anger.
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I have to admit that it was the ironic trapper hat which caught my attention.

You were merchandising wine bottles while I perused the attractively priced but hit-or-miss quality adult beverage section. My initial reaction was to wonder why I always see people wearing bulky winter headgear indoors - and whether it's cool or not, but that's beside the point.

When you turned around for a second, I was struck by how attractive you are. Even in the ridiculous trapper hat. I thought "damn, I ought to ask some silly question about the wine so I can talk to this pretty girl!" I don't do stuff like that. That's how freaking cute you are.

Then I stepped 3 feet to the right, past the shelf that was hiding everything from the shoulders down, and nearly dropped my basket of carefully-selected goods.

I just have to ask...why in the hell would you wear pants like that? At first I thought your pants were accidentally falling off, and looked away in embarrassment, but then I realized that you weren't attempting to remedy the situation and it was intentional. Why in hell would a pretty girl wear saggy rhinoceros ass pants like that?

Cute girl with goofy trapper's hat, I just wanted to say that I would have hit on you if it didn't look like you shit your pants.

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Don't know anything else about you, but you were cute and awful polite... I guess if you're reading this then it's a possibility we could meet up sometime...

If you're interested, please reply :)]]> 2010-01-06T01:18:24-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539561175.html text 2010-01-06T01:18:24-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539552571.html 2010-01-06T01:03:52-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539552571.html text 2010-01-06T01:03:52-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539539558.html 2010-01-06T00:45:29-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539539558.html text 2010-01-06T00:45:29-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539518242.html 2010-01-06T00:16:11-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539518242.html text 2010-01-06T00:16:11-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1539503516.html 2010-01-05T23:58:27-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1539503516.html text 2010-01-05T23:58:27-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539461776.html 2010-01-05T23:11:43-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539461776.html text 2010-01-05T23:11:43-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539461100.html 2010-01-05T23:11:00-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539461100.html text 2010-01-05T23:11:00-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539457432.html 2010-01-05T23:07:21-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539457432.html text 2010-01-05T23:07:21-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1539442491.html And if we're looking for it, will it elude us just to keep us searching?
Like a treasure map without the "X".
To seek, or not to seek, that is my heart's dilemma.
]]> 2010-01-05T22:52:53-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/mcb/mis/1539442491.html text 2010-01-05T22:52:53-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539406862.html 2010-01-05T22:20:00-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539406862.html text 2010-01-05T22:20:00-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539349176.html
I remember everything about you-your hands, your feet, everything in between. Your laugh, your look at me when I annoyed you, your smile, how you looked fresh out of a swimming pool, your winter coat, how you looked in sweats, how you looked in the morning...how you used to think you looked bad in the morning, but I always thought you looked sexy as hell. That's right-messed up hair, no make up, and I loved it. And much, much more...

That was a while ago. Recently we had the chance to speak twice-the first time I told you about this place, and I wonder if you ever look here. Both times were almost a train wreck and that was all on me. Having you on the phone, again, threw my head into a tail-spin and tied my tongue like never before. I wanted to say so much and only drew blanks because I just couldn't believe you were on the phone with me. Stammering and stuttering like a school kid all over again. Tongue tied. I never get tongue tied. Everything I tried to say to you came out wrong. And the sound of your voice during our second, (and last) phone call is stuck in my head now too. Might as well have been yesterday, and I wish it was.

And just as I was about to explain that to you, and how that wasn't really "me", we "ended", again.

Fate is not without a sense of humor, karma is not without some very sharp teeth...

I miss you. Think about you at least once a day, whether I want to or not. It sucks worse now than it did before.
]]> 2010-01-05T21:31:13-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/mis/1539349176.html text 2010-01-05T21:31:13-05:00 http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539332273.html The fireworks that we made for the short time we were together was
unforgettable. I wonder if you read these? I want to feel you again
and see that look in your sexy brown eyes! I think of the way our hearts
were pounding.....you took my breath away! If you read this give me
your initals or tell me where we were. I miss you.......]]> 2010-01-05T21:17:57-05:00 en-us Copyright © 2010 craigslist, inc. http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/mis/1539332273.html text 2010-01-05T21:17:57-05:00