"Well, what does "real" mean?", you might be tempted to ask. The answer is simple.
It means that I'm not interested in meeting women who tend to put sex on the front burner and even make it a requirement for love. I'm not interested in meeting anyone "bi-curious" or whatever they're calling themselves now for a first physical experience. I don't want the drama that I tend to see a lot of in lesbian bars, and I don't want the "she said, she said" crap. I don't want anyone who is going to cheat on me or insist I share them with one of those "men" creatures. I don't need a party animal on my hands or anyone who is 420 friendly. And I definitely don't want anyone who needs meds in order to restrain themselves from being a total nutjob.
"Okay, so what the hell DOES she want?"
Good question! Let's get down to that.
I want someone who will call me at the end of my day to ask me how my day went, and so I can do likewise.
I want someone whom I don't have to be embarrassed to take out in public because of her demeanor.
I want someone who will enjoy iced coffee or tea and an evening on the Detroit riverfront holding hands while we heckle boaters in their $100,000 boats fishing in the middle of the night.
I want someone who can contribute to my life in a positive way, and hopefully I can reciprocate.
I want someone who can hold her own in a conversation.
I want someone who isn't needy or desperate for someone in their lives, and when I say "no", won't jump all over me for "cheating".
I want someone that will want me in their life as much as I want them in mine.
I want someone who would be happy to wear matching pride necklaces as a symbol of our relationship (I'll make them, of course, my gift to you).
I want someone who can butch out and defend my honor and morals if some idiot says, "Oh, you guys are a couple? Can I watch?"...and someone who will let me do the same for them.
I want someone who would enjoy a quiet, candlelit dinner for two consisting of pizza, nacho chips and a hilarious movie.
I want someone who may enjoy Frankenmuth as much as I do, and would enjoy going on occasional day trips there.
I want someone who will be secure enough in our relationship to not get jealous and make me give up my Burlesque/Vaudeville career via an ultimatum.
I want someone who is neither butch nor feminine; a delicate balance of the two is what attracts me the most, since that is what I am.
I want someone who would love to go to pridefests and LGBT oriented stores if there's nothing else to do.
I want someone whom I'd be able to see myself with for a long time, and someone who sees me in the same way. I want that "feeling" that everyone else in the world seems to have but me.
Now, here's a little about ME, since I haven't revealed too much (HAHA!):
I am a 32 year old queen size (but not grotesque!) white female living in downtown Detroit. I smoke cigarettes, and my beverage of choice is coffee. I don't drink alcohol, and I'm not too wild about "partying" and going out to clubs....but every once in a while, it does sound pretty good. I'm addicted to Grey's Anatomy and Golden Girls, and I despise "Reality TV". I am a chef's assistant, and I can whip up a pretty mean meal with a dessert that's so good, you'll want to take it home and strap it down to the bed. All of my friends have left Michigan for something better, and I enjoy solitude and all, but it's wearing pretty thin now. I am a high school dropout, but that is being rectified right now as we speak. I am a mistress of many trades: I make jewelry, write erotic stories to sell on the internet as well as design websites for spare cash.
If I sound like someone that you'd like to get to know, knowing what I'd expect out of a potential romantic partner, then write to me. Tell me about yourself, send a picture (no X rated shots, please), let's see if we click. Life's too damn short to be alone anymore. No men, no couples.
- Location: downtown detroit
- it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests